When you’re out there regularly meeting new women and talking to new girls, it can be sometimes downright scary and intimidating. I know for me, when I first started going out specifically to meet girls, I’d often end up slinking home defeated, having talked to no women the entire night.
It’s tough getting used to going out and talking to strangers. You constantly feel afraid they’re going to ignore you… or worse, not like you at all.
I put together a bunch of techniques that helped me to beat my own fear of talking to women, and I think you’ll be able to use some or all of these yourself to make it a lot easier to start learning how to get girls and do better with women.
First, I found that if you have some good music to to pump you up before you go out and to loosen up, this helps a LOT. I’d give you some recommendations, but from what I’ve seen it seems like the music that pumps people up is different for everyone. So, all I’ll say is figure out what gets you excited about going out to go pick up women, and start listening to it before you leave.
The second thing I found that helped me out a lot in the beginning was taking a long walk to get somewhere. Driving was a killer, but walking put me at ease a lot. It was like I was committing to the night or something. I still don’t fully understand it… but I do know it worked.
But the last thing that I’d recommend? The thing that made the biggest difference for me? Honestly, it was just swallowing the pill and talking to enough girls that most of my fear went away. I still feel it sometimes, a little bit, when I’m first starting a night, or when I see a particularly beautiful girl, but most of the times talking to new girls feels like the most natural thing in the world.
If you have any fear of talking to girls you still need to overcome, hopefully the above techniques can help you out some. They worked for me!
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