Knowing how to get girls is one of those things that is at once a little easier than some might think — and a little more complicated than others might suppose. For me, the learning curve was a little easier on this one, because I was already a friendly guy — learning to be more sexy helped me cross the border from “cool as a friend” to “ooh, I want him.”
For guys who maybe come from a harder edge kind of personality, I’d imagine this one’s a bit more difficult, because it requires taking a stronger interest in actually getting to know women. Picking up women works a lot better when you’re trying to pick up women who like you! Needless to say.
But how do you get a girl to like you? Well, this is one I feel particularly suited to answer, as women always have tended to like me… I was just a little too far on the friendly side of things before. But if you follow these tips, you can easily be just as likeable as I was (and still am… most of the time 
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- Show interest in women. What I’ve noticed a lot of guys do when they talk to women is, they talk about themselves! A lot! And women always look really bored, or keep trying to change the topic. I don’t know why guys don’t realize this. I guess they’re having too much fun talking about themselves! Instead of being like these guys, you should focus on getting girls to talk about themselves. The girls you’re talking to will end up a lot more interested in the conversation — and a lot more interested in YOU.
- Seek to relate. One thing my pal Hec that I learned so much from did that I eventually realized was costing him women was that he’d frequently disagree with them and get into mini-arguments with them. It’s cool to not agree with a girl, but it’s NOT cool to get into arguments with them. That’s pretty much a kiss of death for any chance of a getting a girl to like you. Way to go, Hec! (just teasing, bro… but seriously)
- Seek to bond. Almost the same as seeking to relate — you have to share experiences with women that match or are similar to their own experiences. This is how you bond with them and it’s how you show them you’re on the same page.
Getting girls to like you is really not all that hard… provided you aren’t given to sharing a lot of offensive opinions and that you don’t mind shutting up and letting a girl talk! If you’re the kind of guy who loves to hear his own voice though… it might take a bit of work!
Your pal,
E